I have been where you are at, I lost my husband of 20 years and had to start over at 46 years old, and actually I didnt start for years after that because I was raising our young son. I had always been naturally comfortable and confident in my sexuality and am an easy communicator with sensitive subjects, but even with those built in advantages I still needed assistance in bringing back my deeper curiousity groove. and received some somatic coaching to align my shI had to update my communications for dating and relationships in the 21st century. make efforts in working with a menopausal body . I could feel my body changing hormonaly so I became received somatic coaching, became a proactive advocate for my body’s sexual and overall health and read and researched(was past pro researcher) to keep my body humming.ery good at communicting where dI stood in my sexual self, and it became a passion…so I studied to become a life and relationship coach and a professional communicator.
I have always connected with men on a deeper friendship level and have played wingwoman many a time. I know most men who are starting over want to find lasting relationship and that the sexual component of that relationship is very important to them, it is for me too. Sexual satisfaction has no expiration date! It is one of our birthrites and we can enjoy that deep intimacy for the rest of our lives, even with adaptations we can be rockin our beds when we are 90!